Monday, March 25, 2013

Sweet as Honey...

Proverbs 24: 13 - 14

My child, eat honey, for it is good.
The honeycomb is sweet in your mouth.
Know that wisdom is like that for your whole being.
If you find it, there is a future.
Your hope won’t be cut off.

Kitty corner across the street from the town square sits the First Presbyterian Church of Franklin, Kentucky. The beautiful brick building was built in 1886, and it contains a lovely secret.


I was blessed to have the opportunity to preach there a few weeks ago while their pastor was on vacation. I opened the heavy wooden doors,stepped into entrance and the first thing I saw was the rope for the bell. It was all I could do not to grab that rope and start ringing...but I resisted. I'm a sucker for church bells. Always have been. And my love has been fostered by a good dose of BBC. One episode of Midsomer Murders, "Ring Out Your Dead" featured a group of bell ringers practicing for their big competition while trying to avoid getting murdered!

First Franklin features classic stained glass windows, exposed wooden beams and a gently sloping floor. Best of all, the pulpit wasn't too big for me! This is a close knit, and growing community. You could tell how much they care for each other in the passing of the peace and the sharing of joys and concerns.

After worship, I stood at the back of the church to greet people, and after a few minutes there was a lull. I looked around and spotted the leather bound visitor's book. It reminded me of the one that stood in the narthex of the old sanctuary at Second Presbyterian, and I picked up the pencil to sign my name.

The moment my fingers touched the pencil, I flinched a little. The pencil was sticky. Not just a little sticky. Really sticky. But must first thought was that a child had left it that way...There wasn't any point in putting it down since my fingers were already attached to the stickiness, so I signed the book. As I turned around, thinking I should probably let someone know, a woman walked up to me to say hello.

We began talking about the sanctuary, and she said, almost apologetically, "Well, did you notice the streaks on the walls?" At the back corner of the sanctuary there were long streaks coming down the white walls. I would never have noticed them if she hadn't pointed them out.

"That's honey," she said. "We have a beehive in the walls. A beekeeper came and tried to remove the hive, but they came back! Once we had the honey bottled and gave it out to everyone. We called it 'Holy Honey.'"

I held the fingers of my right hand up to my nose, and I could smell it. The beautiful aroma of honey. Honey was literally oozing through the walls of their church. Dripping down on the pencil I had just used.

"That's amazing," I said to her. "Did you know the beehive is a symbol for the church?"

The beehive, filled with bees, each with different tasks to do, each with different gifts, and, for the most part, working harmoniously together. Pollinating, feeding, producing glorious, golden honey.

What a powerful reminder they have with them each week when they gather.

Maybe it was my imagination, but the longer I stood there, the more I was convinced that I could smell the honey in the air.

I love that the bees came back, that they didn't want to leave. They are happy there. Safe there. This is their home, and from this place they can go out into the world to do the work they were made to do.

It is one of the reasons we gather on Sundays, isn't it? Gathered together, we can find our spiritual home. We can remember that we are safe in God's arms. We can be reminded that we are not alone. And then we can go back out into the world to do the work God has called us to do.






Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Happy Birthday, Buddy!

Smiley (Buddy's other dad) and  Buddy




Buddy in a teeny tiny dog bed

Today is Buddy's birthday. Buddy the Bulldog. 75 pounds of muscle. No one told Buddy that he's, um...a large dog. He is convinced he is a lap dog, and he will only sleep if he is stretched out on top of someone. I've had a cat that thought he was a dog, and a Labrador who thought he was a Jack Russell, but I've never known a dog quite like Buddy.

Once, I lost Buddy. I was supposed to be taking care of my grand-dog while Josh was in D.C. for an Eco-Car conference. We looked for almost two hours. I was panicked. Bulldogs overheat due to their squashy faces and rather compromised nasal arrangement. And Buddy loves water, but bulldogs are sinkers. He has to wear a life jacket...so I was very afraid that we would find Buddy passed out or worse...Then Josh got the call from the Williamson County Animal Control team. They had found him chasing deer in the hills of Brentwood. He happily hopped in their truck and enjoyed the free ride home as much as the running. They found him miles from home...

If you know anything about bulldogs, they are supposed to be lazy. As in, Josh took Buddy to the vet for his check up and the vet asked, "So, is he getting his 10 minutes of exercise each day?" The vet was shocked to hear that Buddy needs hours of playtime: tug of war, wrestling, walks...

No one ever told Buddy what he's not supposed to be. No one told him he couldn't be a lap dog. No one told him he doesn't really fit in a teeny tiny dog bed. No one ever told him that he wasn't supposed to run through the hills on a summer's day, or play endlessly for hours. Besides, it wouldn't do any good. Do you have any idea how stubborn bulldogs can be? 

But that's who Buddy is, and he is absolutely impossible to love. 

Don't let the world tell you who you can't be. Don't let the voices in your head convince you that you are anything less than precious. 


I just discovered a wonderful children's book, Ish.
It's the story of Ramon, who loves to draw, but wads up every piece of artwork after his brother makes fun of it. He is about to give up, when he discovers that his sister has been saving his illustrations. When he points out that his vase doesn't really look like a vase, she says, with great joy, "it's vase-ISH!" 
Ramon discovers that even if the world might say he is not a great artist, he must create. Creating gives him joy, feeds his soul, and sets him free. And in that, he is a great artist!

You, are "fearfully and wonderfully made," and God's greatest joy is in seeing you set free by that knowledge. So go out and be brave and stubborn and be whatever it is God has created you to be!

Sunday, March 17, 2013


Jesus is Home

Yesterday afternoon the door bell rang. Fairly unusual occurrence and sure to set the dogs into a frenzy of barking. My middle son, having stopped by the house on his way home from work, turned and asked, “Expecting anyone?”

I said, ‘I think it’s just Jesus. Betsy called to tell me she was bringing him home.” And, yes, it was Jesus at the door. Betsy and I greeted each other and she placed him in my arms.

For those of you who have not been introduced, Jesus is a soft sculpture “doll.” He’s not a baby doll. He’s a bearded, tunic–ed and sandaled Jesus. His skin is a wonderful shade. Not quite olive, definitely not white. His eyes are deep brown, and his hair is parted in the middle, hanging gently, just below his ears.

I was glad to see him.

He’s gone many places – but usually we go together –visiting patients at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital or hanging out with my Div School Field Studies Class.

Jesus had a busy week. Sundays, are of course, a hectic day for him. Then, on Tuesday, he went with me to the Presbyterian Women’s Bible study. I had been invited to lead their study on Children and the Household of God, based on 1 John 2 and 3. A difficult study, and I admit I tip toed around some of it, choosing to focus on 1 John 3:1  “See what kind of love the Father has given to us in that we should be called God’s children, and that is what we are!” (CEB) 

During our time together, I “introduced” them to Jesus, and explained that each week during children’s worship, we pass him around the circle so that each child can have a turn to hold him while they share. We then passed “Jesus” around their circle, and as they held him, they shared their reflections on how the church’s attitude towards children has changed through the years. Many wonderful memories were shared, memories of loving Sunday School teachers who had taught them that they are God’s children. I loved watching them hold Jesus on their laps as they spoke.

Jesus went to visit a friend’s Jr. High group for their Wednesday night program. The girls there welcomed him, too, and again, everyone took a turn holding him. They were remembering how Jesus washed the disciples’ feet, inviting his friends to “love one another as I have loved you.”

Today Jesus will be back at church to greet the children who come to children’s worship. He’ll get passed around the circle again. His hair will get tousled; played with and “combed over” into many various configurations. He tolerates it all. He doesn’t complain when he gets tossed, and seems to like doing the occasional flip.

After all, this is Jesus, the one who said, “Anyone who welcomes a little child in my name, welcomes me.”  Matthew 18:5

This is Jesus, who said, “Let the children come to me, and forbid them not, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14

Thank you, Betsy, for bringing Jesus home.

You have done that for me before, as have other dear friends.

Thank you for ringing my doorbell and placing him in my arms on those days when Jesus seemed far from me, lost to me.

Thank you for bringing him home to me…

Who brings Jesus home to you?

Who reminds you that you are a precious child of God, for beloved, that is what you are.

For whom could you bring Jesus home? Who needs to be reminded that they are "beloved?"

Behold what manner of love our God has given to us - that we should be called children of God! Amen!
Jesus hanging out at Field Studies Class


Professor Trudy & JC